Under Cars
I had the radio on tonight on 106.5FM and some people were talking who sounded like they were from Christines part of the world. It was probably Focus on the Family. Anyway, it sounded like an American couple had everything sorted and had written a book about that, and had this story to add:
A girl from their church was engaged to a nice man and everything seamed good except she had one concern, and she went to the older lady for advice. "I'm afraid he might turn out to be emotionally shallow". !!! Also her fiance was a race car driver. (Oh, we get the picture now right?) The older woman had just the right advice.
"Go into the garage with him and ask him about all the engine parts he is tinkering with. Whatever words he says like 'rod' or 'piston' etc, repeat those words back to him".
She did just that, and without knowing what she was saying she repeated all the car words he was saying back to him. And you know what? The man got up from underneath his car and said he was touched. No one else had had such a interest in what he did, or had made the effort to talk about it. She had entered his world! From that time onwards she loved the garage because she could talk to her man and they could communicate!
Oh dear, my eyelids are fluttering with the thought and tears are coming to the corner of my eye. I guess the story is in the telling. Not relivent to me at all, but I have to councel a number of couples and it maybe a good story to pull out oneday. You know, talk to someones wife in the kitchen oneday and encorage her to venture out to her husband in the workshop for some intimate communication. "Spanner, piston, con-rod". Yeah, that's man talk... and definitely not shallow!
7 Comments:
What's a skyline.
Isn't that a quality man who would come out from under the car and thank her for her caring interest?
For me it turned out that the world revolved around him and he never ever reciprocated and asked me about my projects or interests or needs.
I knew a transmission guy who finally married a mail order bride, but then he really took his marriage seriously. He was so devoted that he took a quilting class with her. Whoda thunk it? This dude was hilarious, before her he'd figured out how to barely ever do laundry by only ever wearing his work uniforms.
Ma Lady
cute little car BTW
A Nissan Skyline is a car you don't get much in America, we don't get it in Australia either. But we import heaps of used ones from Japan. The turbo ones go quite fast. Everyone wants a Skyline. Google it.
Strait 6, turbo, RWD, or 4WD.
I am a bit reluctant to get a mail order bride or do laundry.
I understand the reluctance on all counts! I wouldn't suggest a mail order bride even though it means you *could* take a lovely, creative quilting class with her. It is a funny story though. There have got to be better ways but he found what worked for him I guess. He was 40+ too; I'm sure that factored in. It gives me a smile, thought I'd share.
oh, good blog about how women can show love to men who love cars. Any advice for car men on how to treat a lady right?
Post a Comment
<< Home